Reposted..:)♥♥♥

1. How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy ♥

   
   

   Maintain. If you did a bunch of cute things with her before, try & keep it up. You don’t have to go all out everyday for her, but don’t stop completely just because you got her already.

   
   

   “Ladies first.” No. That rule doesn’t apply to communication. Don’t wait for her call, text, IM, why don’t you try talking to her first for a change ? It’s thoughtful & sweet if a guy can actually do that.

   
   

   Surprise her. You don’t have to drive an hour to her house at 3 a.m. to set off her name in fireworks in front of her window, but the little things are big things. A simple, good morning text, is more powerful than you think.

   
   

   What insecurities ? For the love of God, all girls have insecurities. Please don’t point them out. For example, today I was looking at food & my boyfriend said “You eat a lot. You probably could beat me at a buffet.” WHAT. THAT’S NOT WHAT YOU SAY. Also, let her be herself. If she’s having a bad hair day, don’t make fun of her if it’s hurtful. Let her wear sweatpants & still feel pretty damn cute around you, even when she’s not looking her best.

   
   

   Act the same around your friends. You’re not a real man if you completely blow off your girl in front of your homeboys. When you’re going to hang out with her & your friends you better not run off & leave her standing there to greet them like WUDDUPPP GUYSSS.. NO, you better at least walk with her & introduce her to them if you haven’t already. If you walk with her hand in hand, she’ll love it.

   
   

   When she’s mad. Dude, you better try & get her back. Chase her, whatever it is, don’t let her walk away when she’s mad at you. It shows you don’t care enough to go after her. Don’t let her go.

   
   

   One & Only. If your girl really doesn't like one of your friends, trust, she has good reason to. Girls’ intuition -shrug- So don’t go hanging with your home girl all the time if you know your girlfriend doesn’t likethat bitch. She usually won’t hate for no reason. Respect her. 
   
   
   Trust. Honesty. If you lie to her, you’re going to have one hell of a time regaining that trust because she’ll start questioning everything you’ve said or done for her, no matter how small that lie was. Fess up or get lost.
   
   
   Love her. That’s all. :)♥
   
   
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The best love:).. our story plus our all-time favorite songs:) ♥

487 days of laughter and tears.. 1 year, and 4 months of  love and happiness. It's been a long time since we've started this relationship but it feels like it's always the first day:) We've been through a lot of trials but all I can say is that this will be the best love I'll ever have:)


September 25, 2009:) my best love story has started. This chapter in my life marks the end of something but starts another new and more beautiful things. Those moments when I'm on my worst because of the different trials surrounding me, but thankful for giving him to me, to be my source of strength. Even now, while reminiscing  those times, I would just smile and say thank you for giving me strengths during my worst moments.


OKAY.. syempre pag nabasa na naman to ni benedict, sasabihin na naman pwede naman ako magtagalog ee : p haha..


A rollercoaster-ride..:) Una palang sobrang dami na ang may ayaw. Pero marami pa din ang natuwa,naexcite at sumoporta. Pero all these people became reasons why we became stronger and closer. There were times kasi when he'll just sit in front of me and sing a song while my tears fall. 
*WITH A SMILE AND WAG KANG MATAKOT by Eraserheads* 
<Girl I'll stay through the bad times                <Wag kang matakot
Even if I have to fetch you everyday                 Di mo ba alam andito lang ako
I'll get by if you smile                                     sa iyong tabi
You can never be too happy in this life>          di kita pababayaan kailanman>

Walang araw na hindi ako tatawa kahit puno ng problema utak ko.:) 

He even composed an original song for me..:)) Here's how it goes:

I don’t care about anyone                  They say we're not meant to be

I don’t care about what they say        Just hold my hands let's make this possible

‘cause you’re my only one                 to defy all the odds

I don’t care about anything                 to conquer it all, to conquer it all

‘cause as long as you’re here                                       

You’re my everything                         I know you've been through a lot

And I want you to hear,                      I know you want to give up

I say I love you,                                 Just always remember I'm by your side

This I really do,                                 Just close your eyes and hold me tight                                             

This is my surrender to you               and everything will be alright.

Say you love me too 

Say like you really do

This is all I want to hear from you

The best comfort during those times..:)

Time flies so fast, normal adjustments,and changes which were really part of growing up in a relationship. May mga bagay na hindi pinapakita or ginagawa dati, pero slowly lumalabas at nakikita. Meron din naman na nawawala which I thought at first is that he is gradually changing his treatment. But no, he's not. Dun sa bagay na yun, learning took place. Kahit ang mga salitang nanggaling sa kanya na, HINDI NAGBABAGO ANG PAGMAMAHAL KAHIT KELAN AT KAHIT GAANO KATAGAL PA YAN. NAG-IIMPROVE LANG.  ♥

I would never forget what he said. Siguro dahil may proof ako and i'm thankful for that.  

I was able to do things na hindi ko na naman ginagawa dati. Like, joining a fun run, even ang pagkain ng monggo at dinuguan at pati tahong (buti nga ampalaya hindi naisipang ipakain sa akin e) haha..:)) More than those, even being interested in playing musical instruments and the idea of bands ay dahil sa kanya:)) *There's just something sa idea of doing things together. Masarap sa feeling..:) 

May mga small details, small things na nagagawa namin together during our free time. Like playing tekken, guitar hero, mga tipong simpleng laughtrips, mga ilang oras ng kwentuhan, bonding,  even yung tutugtugan nya ako habang sasayaw ako:)) at ang mga guitar lessons nya sakin, at dancing lessons ko sa kanya.:) ♥


Pati sa pagpupuyat kasabay ko..I can still remember before, I was the scriptwriter of our radio drama. I did the script until 5am and sya din hindi natulog to give me ideas for the script.:) Everytime na may gagawin, he's always there. Kung pwedeng siya na ang gumawa for me, he will. Lahat ng possible ways of helping, iooffer niya.:) Speaking of those efforts, I remembered when he will wait for 5-6 hours para lang sabay kami:)  Theater rehearsals na kahit wala syang pasok, pupunta sa school, mag-aantay ng ilang oras para sunduin ako.:) simple things, which really make my heart melt. ♥

After everything that we have gone through, we're still standing strong, and thankful for having the opportunity to spend our first anniversary together. With the help of friends, feeling ko successful naman yung surprise ko.:) haha.. *25 reasons why I love him in 25 strips of paper distributed to the people na makakasalubong, makakasama or madadaanan niya papunta sa akin*, *Illustration board where elmo, his fave character, was drawn with lots of messages from our friends(credits to joanna marie:)) and *a sketch of our own picture (by Myrwen, haha) *Celebrated with Joanna marie and Byron, we all had a very wonderful and meaningful celebration. Kahit simple lang, pero sobrang nadama.  ♥

Hindi lahat ng ikukuwento ko dito ay masaya at ikatutuwa. haha:)) pero may mga  pangyayari na nakapagpabago, at dahil dito may nawala pero may nanatili at di kailanman mawawala. Mga nakapagpatunay na hindi nalulutas ng isang hug ang sakit, not like before. No need to mention kung ano man yun, our friends already knew that. Pero, this is just a proof that not all relationship should be happy all the time. Mas healthy kung may trials, kasi yun ung nakakapagpastrong. We've reached the point where "we are so close still so far" but we have to "start all over again" since we have decided to fix things for the both of us as a couple and as individuals as well. 


I know I'm in good hands. Because when God knows that you're ready for the responsibility of commitment, He'll reveal the right person under the right circumstances. ♥


I can still remember, during the time when I said "yes" to him, nagtanong kagad sya kung nakikita ko ba daw na sya ang kasama ko sa future. Mahirap sagutin yun nung mga panahong yun. hello?:)) kakasagot lang?:)) excited?? hahaha.. pero as time passed by, I can say that he is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, Kahit Maputi na ang buhok ko. ♥


I love you ♥

a paranoid thing..:\

"In love, who is the hardest to compete with? Third party?, Flirts?, Good lookings?,or heartthrobs?....

NO.. IT IS THE LOVE BEFORE YOU.. THE EX.".

It may be a cliche and a long-time issue for girlfriends, but it really DO EXIST..

Well, these are unspoken words from me. Words that can't be told to anybody since it's a never-ending story and he also doesn't want to talk about it anymore. Past is past. But I can't blame myself from feeling the same way when I know that there are still connections between them.

Here's how and why:
* They have common friends
*A 5 going on 6 year relationship is a different thing, although they say and I keep on believing that it's not the length but the truest sense of the relationship
* They live in the same subdivision
*They were classmates since elementary. Seeing old pictures gives me pain.
*Communications are still open, which really bothers me though, there's no big deal with the way they communicate.

It's not a big deal to be friends after the relationship. But after those how's and why's above, I can't imagine what can happen.. Well, another paranoid thing.

Sign Compatibility test:)

Labbie found it just last monday and he let me read it. Others may not believe these compatibility tools but it describes the kind of relationship we have.

Libra & Scorpio Romantic Compatibility

When Libra and Scorpio come together in a love match, they tend to make a very emotionally connected and mutually satisfying union. Though Scorpio is a brooder who can get lost in the confusing welter of their own emotions, Libra's proclivity for balance and harmony helps keep Scorpio even. Scorpio can return the favor to Libra with their characteristic powers of focus, a trait that Libra usually lacks. These two are very compatible due to their similar needs in a love relationship: Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and Libra is happiest when in a well-balanced and intimate relationship, while Scorpio thrives on emotional and sexual intimacy with their mate. These two Signs can make a very loyal, close and satisfying partnership.

These two would do well to undertake some sort of project together aside from their love relationship, as they have great potential to get great things done. They combine the power of emotion with the power of intellect, an extremely formidable duo. Scorpio tends to be more patient, but is also more controlling than Libra. Despite any differences, both partners love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! These two are real charmers; they know how to woo and seduce one another and take great pleasure in doing so. Their different styles -- Scorpio is intense and secretive while Libra is upfront and open -- sometimes make them have trouble understanding one another, so they may need to pay close attention to their communication at times.

Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus (Love) and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars (Passion) and Pluto (Power). Libra's love of beauty and romance balances the strife that can arise in Scorpio's life due to their deep, often tangled emotions. Scorpio's Mars influence at least promises an active, exciting relationship. Also, neither Sign wants to argue. Scorpio avoids arguments in favor of secret revenge; Libra abhors conflict and will do anything possible to avoid it, including backing down and seeking a truce.

Libra is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. The best decisions are made combining the intellect and the emotions -- using both the head and the heart, this couple can meet almost any challenge, understand almost any puzzle. This is all contingent, of course, on the two Signs working together, not against one another. Scorpio is a master strategist and can help Libra focus their occasionally scattered or indecisive minds. At times, however, Scorpio's over-emotionalism can drag down and dishearten Libra, and Libra can occasionally make Scorpio feel flustered and uncomfortably stirred up. It is at these times when Libra's natural diplomacy comes in most handy.

Libra is a Cardinal Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Libra is always thinking of something new to try: a new restaurant or art gallery to visit on a date or a new place to travel to -- but it's Scorpio who has the determination to follow through on these ideas. These two have the capability to be the most loyal and devoted of partners, as these are qualities that are quite important to each of them.

What's the best aspect of the Libra-Scorpio relationship? The power they find in unity. They can accomplish a lot, whether they come together for a cause in the business or romantic sphere. They are both winners and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that takes care of business. (2010.http://shine.yahoo.com/astrology/compatibility/love/?sign1=libra&sign2=scorpio)

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